What I learned today was that I am not the only person that feels awkward socializing sometimes, and over compensates by "over sharing".
I learned this term today that describes myself, and felt a tremendous sense of relief to hear a total stranger casually confessing their "over sharing" personality trait. It was like looking into a mirror, and being gently eased into a new, comfortable understanding of myself.
At a gallery opening today I was introduced to a lovely, lively woman named Evony. In her quick, expressive manner she described being intimidated by her ex-boyfriend's tall, quiet fiance, and her struggles with feeling inferior in her presence, because of her tendency to overshare.
I realized right away what she was talking about, having felt the same way many times. But the best thing is, I found Evony totally charming, honest and delightful. So if I am like her, then I am in good company.
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